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Wow,if your husband does not feel the same way then I feel so very sad for the state of your marriage. If he does feel the same way then hurray for your marriage, one less issue to deal with. Unfortunately, I see this situation occur in a lot of marriages with disastrous results and usually it's the man that gets shortchanged by a thoughtless, selfish and uncaring woman who seems to forget why her husband was attracted to her in the beginning of the relationship. Sex is why a man pursues and desires a woman and women know this very well and use it to their advantage in the beginning of the relationship to earn a home, kids, old age security then when all that is acquired they shut off the well on the man and then suddenly the man is caught choking and starving for something his lifelong mate falsely assured him that he would have for the life in their relationship. And then the woman acts so very surprised when the man goes out and has an affair to meet his undying needs. I can understand if a woman has physical limitations and just can't perform such as heart issues, skin problems or severe breathing problems but if you just don't feel like having sex anymore then do something about it because lots of remedies are available out there. What if your husband said that he just didn't feel like cutting the grass anymore or didn't feel like going grocery shopping for you? How would you feel if things were reversed on what you desired and liked. You wouldn't feel so nonchalant about the situation then would you? If your husband still needs sexual intimacy and you won't offer it then you both need counselling, you need to get bloodwork to see if you have vitamin deficiencies or any other physical problems that are causing your lack of interest in sex. Remember, you have a partner and you are not alone in this relationship and your actions may be causing severe grief to someone that loves you. Good luck.

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