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A very stupid one. Its up to you, what you do. But I wouldn't take it personal. People screw around. Women just as much as men do. When I caught my wife, I didn't get mad, I just adjusted my thinking. We get along great, we have fun together, she just wanted something on the side. I ended up meeting a nice girl and we became great friends. Now I have my own something on the side. We have been this way for years and we have never gotten along better. I could have gotten mad, or felt betrayed, but when its all said and done, and keeping things in perspective, its only sex. She comes home to me, and its me she cuddles on the sofa with.

She will never have the relationship with her boy toy that she has with me, and I will never have the relationship with my girl toy that I do with my wife. 14 years of marriage forms quite a bond.

This may not work with you however. Your man was willing to meet a perfect stranger for sex. Thats not only foolish but its dangerous. Me and the wife are in long term affairs with good clean people. There is a lot less of a chance of bringing home some nasty STD than having anonymous flings with perfect strangers. Thats the part of your story that concerns me. Your man acting a fool and giving you the clap.

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Dear Chido,

You are worth more than this.

It is so hard to have relationships with all the interference from the internet. On line affairs and cyber sex are just as damaging as the physical cheating. After all sex is mostly in the head, the body just follows what the head says.

Abuse comes in all forms, he is abusing you emotionally, get yourself free of him and you will see what a terror of a man he is. Once you leave him, break contact with him otherwise he'll lead you back in with a smile and then abuse you again.

Let the other women have him, he's not worth having.

Remember this; A woman who marries the man she has cheated with, has a man who will cheat on her.

Let him go, he's abusing your heart and your soul.

E

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