Hmm i don't really know what to do ..
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Katetlynn

I'm 3 months pregnant and want to get a abortion because im only 15 years old. My boyfriend is 18 years old and he wants me to have the baby. But i said to him that i want my kids , i mean our kids to have parents that will be able to put food on their plates when their hungry , and clothes on their backs when they get cold , as well as a nice warm house to live in during the winters . We are to young to be having a baby and i want to get an abortion , but he told me that if i do he will probably hate me and will never talk to me again , but the only reason i said that we aren't ready to have a baby yet is because i don't have a job , he doesn't have a job and we both DIDN'T finish school yet. I'm just trying to look ahead and see how my child will have a good life as well as me and my love . I just don't know what to do or what to think about this because it's to hard to loose a baby , it has a beating heart and it's inside of you . Uhh i wish someone could just please make everything better ..

anyone have anything they would like to add to my comment or anything they would like to say ?. You can say whatever because i will read them all even though if i think they are dumb. lol

 

DKSeeman

Hi Katetlynn.
You are very responsible for considering your future and your child's future so seriously. You and the child's father are very young and having to support a child is a huge responsibility. Since your further along, would you consider going to a pregnancy crisis center to get some counseling for you and your boyfriend? It is anonymous and will help you sort out your options, including abortion or adoption of your child. There is a tab at the top of the Epigee website "Pregnancy Crisis" which gives more details about what to expect from a center. I used to volunteer at one, they are in just about every city now. Please go, even if your bf won't go with you. My heart goes with you.

 

Katetlynn

I know i tried telling him that we was to young and that we wouldn't have any way to pay for all the stuff a baby needs. Ok i'm just going to be truthful right now because i don't really care who reads this , and this is how i get my feelings out is talking about it. I have NOT told my mom or dad about this. When i barely told my dad that i had a boyfriend and that he was 2 years older than me he got mad, and you know what ? i haven't even been able to sit down with my father to talk to him and have a regular situation because of all the s*** i got put threw when i was growing up. And if i even try to tell my mom she would probably hate me because im her youngest and she freaked when she found out i was even having sex . I'm glad i told her that one though. I would love to go to a group but i don't think i would be able to do it .. I'm already getting put threw so much stuff right now i just wanted someone to talk to about this so i can see what other people think . I have moved from 4 different schools in this year , and we are only like 2 freaking months into the new year. I just have so much going on right now , and then i had to find out i was pregnant . Im not saying its bad to be pregnant and that its impossible to have a baby at my age , im just saying its hard to be a teenager AND having to move all over AND that hasnt even finish highschool yet , and on top of all that , my boyfriend just got put back in jail and isnt going to be out for about another 2 or 3 months . i wouldn't be able to handle this all on my own and him not being there for me and my baby . I told him i just wanted to get an abortion right away then when we both finish highschool and atleast try to get a life first then we could have a baby . Sorry it's so long but i had this on my mind this whole morning ..

 

DKSeeman

Katetlynn,
I appreciate your honesty. Please keep talking about this to me or someone. You are in a tough situation for sure. But nothing is impossible. I know how scary it can be to tell your parents. I suggest you contact a crisis pregnancy clinic near you. Please call them today ASAP. They will help you face this crisis (individually, not in a group) and you won't be so alone. They may help you face your parents too. You might be surprised how well they can take it when you tell them. They may already suspect something is going on anyway. It occurred to me that you can't drive yet. Do you have an older friend or sibling that could take you there? May I ask what town you live near and I will research a good clinic for you?
Hang in there! Deborah

 

Katetlynn

I already went in today , i have to go back later to have my abortion :/ for some reason i think this is the best thing to do , but it hurts to just let something thats a part of you go just this easy .. thanks for trying to help though Deborah . (:

 

DKSeeman

No problem, Katetlynn, I will pray for you and your baby. Let me know how you are doing. Sorry that you need to go thru this.

 

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