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felicia
 October 11th, 2010 12:42 PMReport

Okay I have irreglar periods heres whats it like starting from last year of . October 8, November 9, December 12, janurary 15, Feburary 23....
Feb 23 was my last period. My boyfriend and I been off and on, so I have a huge confusion who the father of my baby is.. I slept with the guy i was messing around with last on march 5 was drunk. didnt mean for that to happend.
and On march 7 slept with my boyfriend. can you please tell me who likely the father of my baby is.. its bothering me big time.

rikithemonk
 October 12th, 2010 9:36 AMReport

You slept with both men two days apart. Semen can live in your vagina for three days, that means that if your drunk encounter didn't use any kind of birth control, then his semen could very easily have still been in your vagina when you had sex with your boyfriend. So basically, if you used no birth control, there is no way to tell who the father is. It could easily be either man.

What protection was used during both sexual encounters? If none, did the men pull out or finish inside you? You didn't give much information and it may make a difference.

felicia
 October 12th, 2010 10:49 AMReport

No i wasnt on no birth control . Oh gosh this is horrible, I was drunk with dont remember if we used protection or not. soo cant really say.
Bad choices i've made while drinking.. : (

rikithemonk
 October 12th, 2010 11:14 AMReport

Ok, the guy from the party was drunk and you were drunk, its a safe bet that he finished inside of you. That means he has a 50 50 chance of being the father. The odds change drastically depending on what your boyfriend did.

How about when you had sex with your boyfriend. Condom? if not did he finish inside of you or pull out. If he finished inside of you, then its a 50 50 chance that either of them are the father. If your boyfriend used a condom, then its only a 10 percent chance that he is the father. If your boyfriend pulled out, then the odds more around 40 percent that he is the father.

Just be careful not to screw over the wrong guy. There is nothing worse than being financially bound to a child for life, and then not even have it being you own kid. Thats a crap thing to do to someone.

felicia
 October 12th, 2010 11:21 AMReport

Yeah i know. Well I wish I havent done what I done. I seem like a bad person but aint really. But used to protected with the boyfriend.
I wish he was the father, dont know how to tell him.
My due date wouldnt make a difference?

felicia
 October 12th, 2010 11:21 AMReport

And oh yeah and to your question my boyfriend did finish inside of me

rikithemonk
 October 12th, 2010 6:15 PMReport

Your not a bad person. Everyone messes around. On a positive note, there is absolutely no way at all to tell who the dad is, so you can just flip a coin.

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