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t2pretty94
 September 30th, 2010 8:23 AMReport

Me & my sex partner didnt use a condom :-(and he nutted in me twice .if the test shows im pregO and he doesnt wanna keep it but i dont believe it abortions should i just have a abortion or should i give it up for adoption or just make him exspect the fact .and the bad part is its his falut . What should i dO please help:-\

rikithemonk
 September 30th, 2010 12:20 PMReport

You shouldn't keep the kid. Adoption is a good idea

mrsp90
 October 1st, 2010 9:32 AMReport

It's never a good idea to do something that you don't want to do based on someone else's opinion. Especially when it concerns you and another life. If you are already uncomfortable with the idea of abortion, the worst thing to do would be to terminate your pregnancy. You don't want to live with that kind of regret.
Adoption is a great idea if you are not ready for a baby.
As for the father, if he is trying to pressure you into doing something that you are uncomfortable with now, it sounds like he isn't the best thing for you.
Best of luck, whatever you decide :)

musicdriveslife
 November 3rd, 2010 10:26 PMReport

If you know that you don't believe in abortion then don't do it. If you feel as though he is going to pressure you into an abortion then you need to tell someone that you trust and get rid of the guy. There are many women out there that want a baby more than anything and unfortunately cannot have one by natural means. You would be best to bless one of these women with the life that has been created. Best of luck and remember if you don't respect your beliefs then you won't be respected.

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