I know this is terribly cliche but I'm extremely confused about what's going on with me lately!
Though I don't chart my basal temperature or hcg, I have kept track of my menstrual cycle for the past 2 years. My earliest period during the past 2 years was on CD28 and my latest was on CD31. I've never, ever missed a period in the 13 years I've been menstruating and I've never been much later than my 29 day "average" CD for my period arriving. I'm very very regular and predictable! For the past 8 years with my fiance, we've only ever used condoms for birth control, never had breakage, leaking, or slipping. Figured we were extremely good condom-users!
Well, my last period occured on May 11th and lasted 3 days, as it always does. I'm now on CD40 (10 days late) and haven't gotten my period! I've never ever been this late before. Even before I realized how late I was, I have been getting light-headed and had cramps for about 4 days (which have since subsided). My breasts aren't swollen or sensitive, nor am I vomiting or anything like that. I am congested a lot (I don't have summer allergies, nor am I ill) and get nauseated during the afternoons, on-and-off for about 3 hours.
I'm not under stress (I actually just got a great bonus at work and my relationship is great) nor has my diet or exercise routine changed.
I took two pregnancy tests at CD35 and CD37 but both were negative. I took another this morning (CD41) and it was also negative. I called my OB/GYN and she said not to worry and to take a couple more tests in the next week and if they're still negative and no period, THEN she'll set an appointment for me.
Any words of wisdom, personal experiences, or tips would be great!