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withdrawal
zowey.al
 October 25th, 2009 11:54 AMReport

boyrfriend withdraws every time we have sex. yes, we do it a lot like any healthy, active couple. we've been together for almost 4 years. fate must favor us coz I have not gotten pregnant accidentally ever.

* knocks on wood...

I guess its as effective as any other contraceptive? risky yes.

MsGeorgia
 October 25th, 2009 1:30 PMReport

you must be very luck. withdrawal perhaps is one of the forms of contracption, if it can be called that, with the highest risk of getting pregnant. don't be overconfident. be careful if you are not ready to get pregnant.

weena
 October 26th, 2009 9:48 AMReport

That is being responsible if you just have your guy withdraw. Never safe. Good to know nothing has happend til now although the chances of getting pregnant in your case is very high.

sharon_anne
 October 27th, 2009 10:35 AMReport

wow! good luck!

kittykate
 October 31st, 2009 12:14 PMReport

no its not reliable. so i guess you are just lucky! haha!

danielle_p
 November 1st, 2009 12:36 AMReport

somebody still uses this sort of method?!?!

i always find withdrawal sort of like abrupt. your there almost... but not quite and then...bam its not there anymore!!!

zowey.al
 November 4th, 2009 12:05 PMReport

you'd be amazed at how many people/couples still do this up to now. :)

Alexa_G
 November 5th, 2009 9:35 AMReport

you know condoms are cheap and they are more relliable than the pull out method... but, hey whatever floats your boat!

chey
 November 11th, 2009 11:16 AMReport

well when my bf runs out of rubber, to hell with it! lols!

Christine_James
 November 12th, 2009 5:30 AMReport

It takes self control and discipline to withdraw. kudos on finding a good man! And good luck to both of you!

zoie107
 November 14th, 2009 5:43 AMReport

My first time was withdrawal too... but you can get pregnant if the guy does not pull out in time...

Nancy204
 December 4th, 2009 12:32 PMReport

Not all countries are as liberal as the United States and other Western countries when it comes to the issue of sex so withdrawal, aside from the rubber, is one of the more dominant ways for women to avoid getting pregnant.