i think i am pregnant and i am only 15 and i have no clue what to do i only had sex for the first time and now i have a larger appitite and killer morning sickness. what should i do tell my mom and stepdad or keep it to myself and if i start to show and my stomach gets larger tell them or have myself checked now?
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I know it's scary to think about telling your mom and stepdad, but you're going to be a mother. That means making the tough decision to do what's best for your baby. You can't wait until you start to show to seek prenatal care, especially at 15. You need to see a prenatal care specialist (up to you whether you go to a free pregnancy clinic, doctor, OBGYN or midwife) as soon as you can to make sure you're doing everything you can to keep yourself and your baby healthy. Even if you're not sure you want to keep the baby, make sure you keep it healthy - you might want to give it up for adoption. Thousands of couples are seeking to bring babies into their families but can't - it's an incredible gift you can give if you don't feel up to taking on motherhood. Try googling your zipcode and "crisis pregnancy center" - most of these clinics offer free testing, care, and support for young moms. Some even have a residential area where you can live until you deliver, if you think your parents won't support you. Either way, welcome to the sisterhood of mothers, and good luck! You've been given an amazing chance - do what's best for you and for your new baby!
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