I don't think that abstinence is a very normal lifestyle to pursue. We are supposed to mate...it is in our very genetic makeup. How else would we survive? People who try to avoid sex are just kidding themselves. I am not saying that you should go and have sex with just anyone, but I am saying that you shouldn't feel bad because you want to have sex and others expect you to be abstinent. it just means you are a healthy, normal person. Use protection tho!
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I think that's a very unfair thing to say. Yes, we humans are suppose to have sex but that doesn't mean we should just do it with anyone, any where, any time. Sex is something that is very special and should only be shared between two people who are married and want to have children. There is no reason for young people to have sex before they are married and especially when they are teenagers.
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Human sexuality is not something evil or to be avoided, we were meant to have sex. HOWEVER there is a difference between having sex with a partner that you love and just sleeping around with all and sundry (which is a bad idea and may lead to getting STIs or unwanted pregnancies). In my humble opinion, sex is just something that one needs to be responsible about, whether or not you're married to the person you're having sex with. If two adults want to have sex, and have a relationship, I do not see a problem. Of course, masturbation is always available to those who wish to abstain from sex until marriage.
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Wow...Lynn get your head out of your ass. Sex is special? Only when we are married? The human race is an animal. We always will be. In society yes we should be repossible but gimme a break. And marriage is just a made up peice of crap anyways. People think it's "moral" to get married. "it's what makes a family whole" Bullshit. It's society drilling shit like that in your head. Saying "work,get married,reproduce and CONSUME!" Thats the human life cycle of todays society and it's tiresome. If you wanna have sex go for it but just be smart about it. But as it looks you're probably a "good christian woman" correct? I shit on your religion aswell. Peace out.
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