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Scared and alone
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I am so scared because I just found out that I am pregnant. This is totally unexpected and i just don't know what 2 do. i am only 13 years old. It was only the second time i've ever had sex and now i'm preggers. I can't believe it! What am i gonna tell my parents, my friends, and the guy who did it? They are all gonna freak on my majorly. Has anyone else been pregnant so young? did u keep the baby? any advice is appreciated!
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Just read your message, and you are NOT alone. I was pregnant at 18. I had an abortion, because I was not financially or mentally ready, neither was the father. I am 39 and pregnant with my husband. So please think of your future. I'll say a prayer for you, and believe that you will make the right decision for you at this time in you life. :-*
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At 13, I honestly don't feel like you are mentally capable of understanding what it's like to be a mom. I really feel like at your age only your closest adult family member will be able to tell you what choice you have. I've seen parents who have been in the same situation and have taken care of their childs, child because abortion wasn't religiously an option. And yet some parents may see that adoption is a good way to go, while your parents may also see that abortion is an option to. For your childs sake and your own, let a family member know about what's going on so they can help you...hopefully someday with no regrets. Good luck and you will be in my prayers :-\
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Yes, 13 is a that would bee tough to raise a child. You need to talk to your parents, but also you need to think about your future. Ex) High School, and College and even what you may do after that. I know a family that made her keep her baby she is 14 and all she wanted to due is give it up for adoption and so did the babys father, but instead he had to stop playing sports and get a job and she has no free time. The real sad part is the parents only were going to help tell she got out of high school then what was she going to due now that is will be 4 years old. How I know that because we were going to be hopefully the the adoptive parents but they chose not for Adoption, we adopted our 1st son 2years ago. I have to tell you did also does not matter what age you our giving birth or adopting it is still scary, at least it was for me at 1st and I think anyone will tell you that. And again I think you need to talk to your family.
Miranda
itsgreat2adopt@yahoo.com
www.luv2adopt.net
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Hey. I am in your shoes too. I just turned 14 and on my birthday I found out I was pregnant. (Happy Birthday right?) What I did was told my boyfriend first. He told his parents and I told mine. I am going to keep my baby, but I am not able to do anything for a long, long time. I am scared that since I am so young that I will lose the baby or die giving birth. If you have any worries or problems, get in touch with me and I will try to help.
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im 17 just found out im pregnant. don't know how to tell my family or his family. the father already knows. i graduate this june andi don't know what to do. my mom will majorly freak out and god only knows what my father will say. please help!
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Actually, I experienced the same thing when I was 16. The best thing that you should do now, is to Pray hard, fogive yourself and you better tell your parents and accept all the consequences. You have to stay strong for yourself and for your baby. Keep the baby and give him/her all your love. Don't worry, everything will be alright. God bless you and take care.
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im 13 and i have the same problem. but i think im 3 weeks pregnant.
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im 15 and pregnant and i dont know what to do holla at me if you need to talk
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hi, im in the same position as you. i just turned 15 and am 7 weeks pregnant, the guy doesn't want to be with me but wants me to have the baby. I haven't told my family yet, they will flip out at me. I dont know what to do, i feel like you do. What do people think?
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